No matter what video chat platform you use, it's important to be respectful of others.
Offices are reopening across the country, with many employees returning to their old workspaces, but that doesn't mean the age of Zoom is over. Some companies have shifted to a hybrid workforce combining remote and in-office work, which means many of us will still be spending time on video chat, regardless of where we're working.
Whether you're using Zoom, Skype, FaceTime, Google Meet or Hangouts, Microsoft Teams, Facebook Messenger Rooms or one of the other video chat services available, you've probably encountered some distracting video-chat behaviors from colleagues and friends, taking your calls off the rails. Or maybe, unintentionally, you've been that colleague!
Here are seven common ways you may be accidentally ruining your video chats and meetings, and how to avoid them.
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There are plenty of reasons you might want to keep your video off in a meeting -- maybe someone's pacing back and forth in the background behind you, maybe the room is a mess after some frantic searching last night or maybe you just feel like no one needs to look at you today. I get it.
Unfortunately, your VP probably doesn't.
A recent survey from Wakefield and Vyopa indicates that executives don't have much confidence in people who keep their video off during calls, with 92% of executives agreeing that those employees "probably don't have a long future with our company." That same survey shows that executives have less confidence in their staff's ability to "correctly navigate" remote work tech compared with last year, dropping from about 66% to 61%.
While those attitudes will hopefully change over time, we're stuck with them for now. If you want to have your video on but you're worried about your background, you can always use a blurred or virtual background to keep the focus on you. Just make sure to choose a background that's appropriate for the situation.
In my experience, this is the issue that comes up the most -- especially on large group calls.
There is always someone who forgets to mute, and suddenly the whole group is bombarded by sounds of loud typing, a microwave running, a dog barking or a child shouting. These all come with the territory of working from home. But it's all the more reason to keep yourself on mute unless you need to talk.
Not muting is not only distracting in general, it also is disrespectful to the person who is trying to get a point across. Luckily, Zoom has a handy trick to help you avoid being That Person: Keep your audio muted automatically by going to Settings > Audio > Mute microphone. To quickly unmute when needed, just press and hold the spacebar down.
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Especially in smaller group calls, eating, drinking or smoking during a video meeting is a major distraction -- even more so than it would be in the office, because the camera makes people focus on your face. Try to follow the same rules you would if you were meeting in person.
A caveat: Some people may find themselves in back-to-back video meetings all day, with no time to eat or grab coffee. In that case, if it's a more casual meeting, it's perfectly all right to make an exception. In smaller meetings, it would be considerate to ask if the group minds if you eat, or explain that you haven't had a sip of water for hours.
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Just because you're at home doesn't mean everyone can't see you staring at your phone instead of paying attention to the video meeting. Keep your phone to the side and turned over so you're not tempted to glance at it. Looking away from the camera at other content on your laptop or monitor is also pretty obvious, and whoever you're supposed to be paying attention to will feel ignored. Keep other tabs minimized and your focus on the meeting.
In a smaller meeting, it's courteous to explain why you're looking so focused off-camera. In a larger meeting, consider turning video off if you can't give the speaker your full attention (but, as we mentioned, be aware that makes a bad impression too).
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If you need to get up from a meeting for any reason -- to go to the bathroom, get a drink or attend to a child or pet -- you should give the others a heads up if you can, either verbally or in the chat option included in many of these apps. That way it doesn't look like you've just disappeared for no reason. Otherwise, it's better to hold up a finger to indicate "1 minute" and turn off the video camera until your return to the ongoing call.
Webcams can be tricky -- you may think your laptop is in a fine position on your desk or kitchen table, but all your video chat companions notice is that they can see up your nostrils. Avoid this fate by propping up your laptop on some books or investing in a small stand, so that your camera is at eye level or even pointing down (more tips on that below). That way, the angle won't take away from anything you have to say.
There's definitely a learning curve to telecommuting and using videoconferencing services to host meetings and give presentations. But if you're going to be doing something you haven't done before -- like sharing your screen or playing some audio -- do a trial run with a coworker or family member first, so you aren't fumbling and wasting time while on the call. This will help you look more professional and keep things running smoothly.
It's not all bad news: There are lots of tactics you can use to make sure that you're contributing to your video chats and teleconferences well, and make the whole videoconferencing thing less weird in general. Here are three things to try:
For more help on your video chats, check out tips for how to use Zoom like a pro, and how to change your background on Zoom and Microsoft Teams.