Sure, you don't want your kid drowning in screen time, but playing video games with your kids rules. Especially if you're co-operating or working together towards some goal.
As a Dad with two boys (and a lot of video games) here are some of my favourite video games to play with my kids.
Some might argue that Untitled Goose Game sets a bad example. Look, it's hard to disagree. My kids spent a morning playing this game, then an afternoon pretending to be a goose, stealing my mobile phone and stuff.
But look, kids need to learn how to be mischievous. This game is harmless. It's also so much fun to play with kids. They'll lose their minds.
For the most part you'll want to steer your children away from online shooters, but Splatoon 2 is the exception. It's wholesome, but also cutting-edge and kinda cool.
It's perfect if you want to give your kids something a little more obviously "kiddy" without sacrificing them at the altar of the almighty Fortnite. Playing online is also relatively safe compared to most shooters.
Splatoon is fantastic.
Super Mario 3D World might be the best child-friendly game ever made.
The levels are open and friendly. The game can be played with simple controls but hides a fair amount of depth for experts. Most importantly, Super Mario 3D World is designed from the ground up for cooperative play. Some games have co-op tacked on, but everything about this game is designed to suit people playing together.
If you're looking for a game to play as a family, this is the one. If you have a Wii U, that is. The good news: Nintendo is planning to bring this game to the Switch.
Not only is Rayman Legends endlessly inventive, gorgeous and disarmingly hilarious -- it also has co-op play!
It's difficult in parts, but also has a perfectly pitched difficulty curve. My own children are obsessed with this game. You can either play together or take turns on some of the more difficult levels.
Breath of the Wild is a miracle of a game, but I never imagined it as a game my children would enjoy. Action-RPGs are typically a bit impenetrable for young kids, but this game caters to all levels, mainly because its core mechanics of combat and exploration are accessible to all.
My son had an absolute blast just pottering around in this brilliantly constructed interactive world. Yours will too.
Captain Toad is a puzzle game and, if you're a parent, you know what that means.
"DAD I'M STUCK. DAD HELP ME."
This is a good one to play together, help each other through the tricky parts, teach problem solving. Captain Toad is a good one.
At first I wasn't convinced Mario + Rabbids -- which is essentially a real-time strategy game -- would work for my 5-year-old son. But it did.
Familiarity with the characters, the humor... that contributed, but it's the deliberate pace of the game that makes it work perfectly for kids. Sure, the game ramps up the difficulty in later levels, but kids will love those opening hours of Mario + Rabbids.
Rocket League works for kids on a number of levels.
To begin with, it can do same-screen multiplayer. That's useful if you're keen to play as a family. Second, Rocket League has bots your kids can play against if you're not around to play with them.
Third, Rocket League is cars playing soccer. I mean... that's a Venn diagram pretty much all children can get behind.
Only real issue: Rocket League's set-up is quite complicated. If your kids can't read, you're probably going to have to help out.
Mario Kart is a must, and Mario Kart 8, with its user-friendly control options and inventive track design, is probably the best one yet -- especially for young kids.
Mario Kart 8 Deluxe, recently released on Switch, is the perfect, definitive version of that game. Get on it.
Portal 2 makes this list for a number of reasons. First, it's one of the best games ever made. Second, it has a largely underrated co-op mode. Third, it's a mind-bending puzzle game that forces children to test the limits of their spatial reasoning.
Absolutely must-play for parents and children alike.
Snipperclips is a largely underrated same-screen co-op game that's perfect for parents and their children. You'll be screaming instructions at each other, laughing hysterically and high-fiving as you snip (and possibly clip) your way through some seriously inventive levels.
It has a little bit of cartoon violence, but if you're okay with that, then Spelunky is a great adventure to undergo with your kids. It's fun, accessible and funny in parts.
And even when you fail -- and you will fail -- it's one of those rare games when it doesn't really matter. Just start all over again with a grin on your face.
In my experience Minecraft is more of a game that your kids play, and you sort of just scramble to understand. Either way, if your kid is a Minecraft player, you could do a lot worse. Get involved and let your kid teach you something for a change.