ypager is additional program, for paging feature..
During installation you can choose not to install it.
So, you can uninstall it from control panel, add/remove program.
As for the error you have... I have no idea.. sorry.
i have messenger 6.0 and while it runs fairly well (no I do not want 7.0 thank you) on my WinME, about once a day I get a message saying ypager has caused an error in XXX .dll and will now close. and it does.
I've checked in various sites at google and they all say that Ypager.exe is not needed, and can safely be deleted. However, since it IS part of messenger, and since Messenger is what I use, I dont want to delete it and discover that I no longer can access Messenger at all.
I guess what I'm looking for is more detailed info about what it does (not what it is) and if I can delete it without actually deleting the running part of Messenger.

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