I would look at:
Sony HX5- it has the new back-lit sensor which should make it better than any other super-zoom in low light.
Panasonic ZS3 or ZS1- right now, considered the best compact super-zooms(some newly released cameras haven't been reviewed yet)
Canon SX20 IS- A good all around super-zoom.
Hi all I hate to bore you with yet another thread like this but I'm stuck. I've always wanted a DSLR but after thinking about having to lug it around with me(size), the $$$ and no zoom capability without changing lenses, I decided against it after nearly buying a Canon T1i. Any way my budget is between $300 to $500 and I'm looking for a camera with good optical zoom, image stabilization, and HD video capability. I have looked at the Nikon P100 and the new Kodak Z981 but am wondering what else is out there and if anyone has any feelings about the new z981 as for the $$$ it seems like a good deal. Any help from you guys and girls is greatly appreciated.

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