"How can i fix this."
I'll start with the statement that Microsoft didn't fix the resource issue so its doubtful you will either. But to use Windows 95/98/ME you can reboot from time to time and extend but not stop the needed reboot by reviewing the Memory and such articles in the Optimizing Windows section at http://www.aumha.org/articles.htm
There is no fix for this one.
Every time i download yahoo messenger, after a few weeks of using it, all of my icons go black. Even the icons on my tool bars. How can i fix this. I have scanned my computer for viruses, comes out clean!

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