It depends on the driver but the usual is to download the driver, unzip if needed then read it's install notes. That's all there is to it.
You are right that the Update Driver button is usually not the right answer.
Bob
I have a Lucent PCMCIA Modem, Windows XP installs it's own generic Lucent driver, it does install but doesn't function as expected so would like to install the Manufacturers version of the driver. However when trying to do a manual install, or upgrade the driver it will only select the windows generic one saying it is the best, without any further options. Is there a way I can disable this functionality or manually install the manufacturers driver.
Thanks

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