Some questions for you;
1] Is this CD Software, eg CD burning software, or is it software applications you are trying to install from a CD?
2] Is this any CD? What about music stored on a CD, can you play that in XP?
3] Did you install the XP CD ROM drivers when you installed XP?
4] Any BSOD, (Blue Screens of Death), when the system crashes? If so, what error codes/messages?
{If there are no BSOD's because the system reboots too quickly, disable the Automatic Restart on System failure in System Properties. Right click the My Computer icon, select Properties, click the Advanced tab, then the Settings button under "Startup and Recovery", then remove the tick under "Automatic Restart". This will halt any reboot and give you time to read any error messages.}
5] What does the Event Viewer say? (Start > Run, type in eventvwr.msc then click OK, then in the Event Viewer under either Applications or System, highlight any errors, right click, and select Properties).
Mark
it is not the hardware's issue, as this is a dual-boot windows ME and new installation of XP (w/SP2) home and this never happens when it is running ME, only XP (they are on different drives). What can this be due to, and how can I tweak my XP software to not crash (and create a need for system restore due to errors!) everytime I want to install software from a CD?

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