Try www.portforward.com and make sure your firewall allows this connection.
Bob
I am trying to host a Wolfenstein - Enemy Territory server on my computer so my friends can connect to it. I host LAN servers on my local network at home without a problem. When I host a dedicated server I can not connect to it by connecting to the IP provided by by ISP (78.12.xx.xx). I went to the control panel of my router (Netgear DG834G) and changed settings so the port 27960 (and other ports ET uses) is forwarded to the computer that is hosting the server (192.168.0.2). I also allowed outbound connections on the port 27960. When I host the server I type: start et.exe +set dedicated 2 +set net_ip 78.12.xx.xx +set net_port 27960 +set sv_punkbuster 1 +map oasis . When I connect to 78.12.xx.xx it only says awaiting connection. What should I do to host a server from my computer?
Thanks in advance for any help

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