In what way might this not be good enough, did your friend say?
Shift + DEL bypasses the Recycle Bin and that's good enough for most. However, Windows doesn't delete the file, only the file header, and so the bulk of the file remains on the disk as available disk space. That means the data will eventually be overwritten by other files and data.
To securely delete a file you need specialised software, but once Windows has deleted it (the header only), usually you can do nothing about the remainder until it is over-written or you re-format and reinstall Windows.
Even then, specialist data recovery people could recover file fragments, even after a re-format.
Mark
Hi. Yes, I downloaded some 'music' files and then saw they were 'nasty' stuff and wanted to delete them. I followed Microsoft's instructions and used Shift-Del and got a message asking if I want to permanently delete them so I replied Yes. A friend says this might not be good enough, has anyone come across this please?
Regards robbo

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