We have Microsoft, Toshiba and Widcomm Bluetooth stacks. NOT ALL ARE EQUAL HERE.
http://forum.xda-developers.com/showthread.php?t=665422
You may find one can auto accept and another will not. This is not an offer to answer a question like how to change stacks. I will not respond to that but I KNOW this one. It's annoying that behavior/choices are not the same across machines and Bluetooth STACKS.
Bob
Hi
I have a HP Pavilion dv3510nr laptop running Windows 7 home. My friend and I like to send files to each other over bluetooth. When I send a file to her over bluetooth, she does not have to right-click the bluetooth icon and click "recieve a file". She said at one point, she did click something so that she did not have to go through this process to accept files, but she does not remember how. She has an HP elite book running Windows 7 Ultimate.
Is there a setting that I can choose to make it so that I can auto accept files from her laptop? I searched through settings on my computer and I looked on the internet with nothing too promising.
Thanks,
Corey

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