I would select the D70 because of the large number of lenses available.
There are not a lot of lens choices for the Olympus eVolt...yet.
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Flash unit.....I would hold off on the flash for now.
See if you really need it. The inbuilt flash on the D70 is rated for 36 feet.
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Olympus E-300:
1. http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&category=43457&item=7507214609&rd=1
2. http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&category=43457&item=7506306640&rd=1
Nikon D70:
3. http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&category=43456&item=7506925617&rd=1
4. http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&category=43456&item=7506976647&rd=1
5. http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&category=43456&item=7506863556&rd=1
I am going to need a flash too cause most of my shots are in low light. Any suggestions on that?
PS.... Assume that Ebay was the ONLY place to buy these things. I know it's the last place I should get it from and I'm going to get blasted for suggesting that I'm going to buy it on ebay so let's just assume for this post that there is no other place to get it. I'm just trying to combine affordability and practicality.

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