I'd suggest you look at the Sony NEX 3 or 5, Olympus E-PL1 or E-PL2, or the Panasonic GF-1. You buy DSLRs because you want the control over the camera, which doesn't sound like you're into that. If you just want camera that performs like a DSLR but use it in auto modes then look at the ones that I suggested.
Hi guys,
I'm sure this question has been asked many times but I don't have time to search past threads (Active toddler who likes to break things lol)
Right now I have a VERY old digital camera - Canon Powershot 50
It's over 6 or 7 years old and so I need to upgrade.
I wanted to get a DSLR camera because I love how focused the pictures look. I also like the option to focus on something up close, while keeping the background unfocused. I would only be using the camera for personal use - my family mostly - so many of the features would be useless to me. I don't want to spend tons of money on a camera that I am using minimal functions on.
Which camera would you suggest?

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