IMO, those professional StarCraft players over in Korea... THAT is the mark of a TRUE hardcore gamer. If you make your living playing some game, I'd say you're hard core. Everyone else is just looking for attention, and affirmation that they aren't actually wasting their life.
There are tons of people who claim they are hardcore when it comes to gaming, but few have ever had the chance to tell us what makes them a hardcore gamer. Here is your chance to tell me just that!

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