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What happens when a thread is closed (usually for

May 7, 2006 8:07AM PDT

misbehavior by those opposing the ideas in the thread) and a new article or news item comes up a couple of days later which addresses and (at least in my opinion) gives new evidence on the issue? Do those whose nastiness closed the thread in the first place win by closing down the discussion entirely, and preventing any subsequent discussion? And how is that fair to the issue or the original poster who is the one whose ideas are being attacked being attacked?

I'm just looking for information and guidance here, not a bun fight.

Rob

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You seem to be confused why your threads are often locked ..
May 7, 2006 8:10AM PDT

... in the first place.

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I see some of my threads going on for 20 or 30 posts,usually
May 7, 2006 9:05AM PDT

in the face of increasingly hostile reception until they are closed, since I try only to reply or to elucidate and not to throw another log on the fire in my replies I can only assume it is the vitriol being thrown my way that gets them closed.

Only one was closed after only 2 posts and that was the one where you complained that I had resurrected a thread when I had found a new and newly published article to quote from on the Plame Game, which had information that I had never seen before. That one was immediately locked despite that new information. I make no suggestion as to why it was locked, but I think the ones that ran longer were locked because of the intemperate remarks of others. Dragon was nice enough to point out that he had seen a moderation in my combattiveness, and I think generally I have been pretty good. There is a qualitative difference between referring to someone as "Rot" for example, or some of the other "attractive" epithets that have been thrown my way by the erstwhile conservatives here, and a reference to Eris which is at least half way intelligent, requires more than an IQ of 70 to understand and is an oblique rather than a direct attack.

And yes, at the wedding of Peleus and Thetis, Eris, the only one of the Gods not invited to the party did throw the Golden Apple of Discord labelled "To the Fairest" because she was insulted and angry at the snub, and for which all the Goddesses competed. Aphrodite cheated and promised Paris, son of Priam of Troy, a bride as beautiful as she, Aphrodite, was. Hence the seduction and abduction of Helen, wife of Menelaus of Argos. But none of this would have happened if the competition for Helen originally had not been so heated that all the suitors for Helen were bound into a compact to defend the winner of the competition for her hand against anyone who abducted her, hence everybody ganging up on Troy. And thus you can see that you can learn something even from an incident you may consider unpleasant.

Rob

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An oblique attack is an attack nonetheless
May 7, 2006 9:20AM PDT

And please let's not play the my-IQ-is-higher-than-yours game.

What IQ is required to remember which topic you "resurrected" with "new information"? Or to recognize that COMEDY acts at a WH Correspondent's dinner is just not newsworthy except to air a few funny lines? What IQ is required to recognize that Colbert just wasn't funny that night?

I referred to you as Rot jokingly to prove a point AFTER your attack. I'm sorry your self-supposed intellectually superior mind can't wrap its little self around that. You OTOH attacked with intended animus. I suppose you think you should get points for being "cleverer"?

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What I have decided entirely on my own...
May 7, 2006 9:30AM PDT

is to ignore Rob entirely because he seems unable to post without attacking someone or being crude, offensive or all of the above.

I am not in favor of banning anyone anyway, I don't understand how he manages not to get banned when others have been. I've decided he is to be "sent to Coventry", at least as far as I am concerned.

Not suggesting anyone else do it.

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the ones that were banned were far worse
May 7, 2006 10:02AM PDT

than this poster appears to have been.

that said I have not read any of his posts, but have of the ones who were eventually banned.

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How do you know if you haven't read....
May 7, 2006 12:06PM PDT

Oh, never mind.

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(NT) (NT) I know what I read, going back about 6 years.
May 7, 2006 1:44PM PDT
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You said...
May 7, 2006 8:11PM PDT
that said I have not read any of his posts,
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Yes, but if you haven't read this guy's posts ...
May 7, 2006 9:25PM PDT

... how can you possibly compare???

Rob lacks the anti-semetic streak and propensity for simultaneous MPD of some of the old trolls, but his vitriol and rhetoric is on the same level of toxicity. To the degree that he is able to insert it into just about each and every post, day in and day out, one might even say he's in a class by himself.

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My 11 year old does that .......
May 7, 2006 1:47PM PDT

.... you know, the "It's everyone elses' fault. I didn't do anything!"

Sorry, Rob, but you deserved that one. Kelton may not use such big words as you just did, but it boils down to the same thing.

Accept your responsiblity and move on. Everyone else needs to do the same. You cannot change anyone else here, but you can work on your self. (and that goes for anyone else that might need to work on their own backyard before complaining about the neighbors', same as Rob.)

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Well Marcia, this is what I consider an average post of mine
May 7, 2006 8:11PM PDT
http://reviews.cnet.com/5208-6130-0.html?forumID=50&threadID=174717&messageID=1922979 and it doesn't involve name calling or President bashing or anything else, but I expect it will generate a screaming match anyway and suggestions that I am the Anti-Christ.

I really don't understand why a fairly simple statement of beliefs generates a whirlwind of personal vituperation, but I admit that if prodded I snap back. I have not had a civil word out of Evie, or EdH or a number of others no matter what I have done to try to lower the temperature of the discussion, so I've stopped trying. Kidpeat and EdH enjoy mocking my knowledge of history while clearly being totally ignorant of what has been written by experts, not just recently, but 50 years ago on the subjects they are holding forth as experts on.

But thanks for comparing me to your child, that wasn't a smack at me personally at all was it?

I started here thinking I might be offering a mildly interesting and somewhat valuable point of view since I had had experience living for greater or lesser extended periods of time away from the great navel-gazing United States. The response here has been nasty: that I am anti-America, that I am not American, that I am full of S!@# and a half wit and endless other responses. I'm none of those things, I'm a more than averagely smart guy who has lived away long enough to begin to see much of America's view of itself as a species of group delusion. The US portrays itself to itself as both benign and invariably correct on virtually all issues. From outside, it doesn't look that way. As a simple example the way it handles trade agreements by ignoring them or bullying looks high-handed. The way it ignores the rulings of the World Trade Organization which is strongly pro-US looks arrogant. The way it sees its economy as the only valid economic model for the world and that all deviation from it is to be stamped out looks megalomaniac. And the way that disagreement with the President is treated as a personal affront to all Americans and as Anti-Americanism incarnate is ludicrous.

But that's just my opinion. I'm just trying to enable that old quotation from Robbie Burns "Ah wha' a man the giftie gie us, tae see oorselves as others see us". Apparently there's not enough Scots left in the US to appreciate the gift.

I will acknowledge that the fact that I bother to come back each week and say something that I hope somebody will think about for 5 seconds is some sort of pointless masochistic impulse.

I assure you I am not saying "I didn't do anything". When punched in the face in this forum, I am happy to punch back. But a lot of my posts begin by trying to solicit information or opinions, or express my own opinions and rapidly turn into festivals of horse manure, in which I am only one participant of many, and usually the only one on my side of the issue.

The responsibility I accept is for being dumb enough to offer this fruitless explanation running contrary to the "conventional wisdom" of this forum. There used to be a better balance between Righties and Lefties here, always skewed to the Right however, but most of the Lefties have been banned or have given up. But just because your opposition gives up doesn't mean that you are either correct in your ideas, or have won the issue. It just means you have created a hostile enough environment to drive them away, which seems to be the point here. In my opinion there has always been a desire for this to become a purely Right Wing, Bush loving, everybody else hating Forum. Congratulations. You're 90% or more of the way there.

Rob
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Yes...it is a typical type of post of yours
May 8, 2006 1:19AM PDT

>>>Well Marcia, this is what I consider an average post of mine
http://reviews.cnet.com/5208-6130-0.html?forumID=50&threadID=174717&messageID=1922979 and it doesn't involve name calling or President bashing or anything else, but I expect it will generate a screaming match anyway and suggestions that I am the Anti-Christ.

I really don't understand why a fairly simple statement of beliefs generates a whirlwind of personal vituperation, but I admit that if prodded I snap back. >>>>>

If I wanted to read a book, I would buy one. Your posts are hardly anything that could be considered to be a 'simple statement of beliefs' and more resembles a bill being pushed through the House and Senate with all the pork attached to it. Kind of hard to find the real stuff when you have to wade through the garbage that isn't to the point.

Most of your posts are so overfilled with information that it almost feels like a flaunting of your intelligence or a case of 'if you can't dazzle them with brilliance, baffle them with bull'

Do you ever have anything to say that can take a couple of sentences instead of a dissertation or an essay?

TONI

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You pretty much hit the nail on the head with
May 8, 2006 1:45AM PDT

this comment, Rob:
''...but I expect it will generate a screaming match anyway...''

You want to hide behind the idea of being intelligent and educated, but you also present yourself as the poster child for the old saying of ''kill the messenger.''

It's not the WHAT that you post that generates the heat, so much as the HOW and WHY you choose to post what you do so often.

After you have gone through your ''PMS cycle'' of posting, getting heated replies, getting a thread locked, posting a similar topic, getting heated replies, getting a thread locked, etc., etc.; you then start posting about how you, and those who agree with you, are mistreated here in SE. You use ''big words,'' and beg to be understood in your ''innocence'' in regard to the need for Lee's message being bumped again.

Don't pretend to be one of those people that are ''really, really book smart,'' but dumber than a bag of hammers when it comes to social skills. I truly don't think that you are, but you come across that way when you do this.

My opinion on ''why,'' - you are bored and the interactions here in SE provide a type of entertainment and stimulation that is gratifying.

Take care, Rob, and take what I have said above with a grain of salt if you wish. I have no need to argue at all. I have WAY too much else going on in my life to find that enjoyable. Especially with someone that I care about.

--Marcia


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Well Rob, here's some words from someone with...
May 8, 2006 5:03AM PDT

...a WHOLE BUNCH more of life experience than you have.

You have no more formal education than many more of us here on this forum.

I gave you some words on a VERY IMPORTANT attribute of an extensive formal education, which you have obviously ignored...and that alone doesnt't say much for the effectiveness of your education.

First and probably the least important is you use words that go way over the head of many of our members on this forum...that is , if you want to effectively communicate with every member of this audience, you're going to have write at a much lower level. AND second, most of your posts are rife with jargon...a very ineffective method of effecttive communication.

AND last, as I have said to you before, the MOST IMPORTANT element of higher formal education is the revelation of just how ignorant one really is. The more you know, the more you have the ability to realize how much you don't know. I have seen no evidence that you have realized this.

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The way I walk is just the way I walk,the way I talk is just
May 8, 2006 9:12AM PDT

the way I talk. I don't put on airs for anybody, and I don't dumb down my conversation for anybody either, I'm not running for political office, and I have 40 years of work experience both at the higher and at the lowest levels in 3 separate countries. You say you have more Life experience, great, but I don't see how that impacts or negates my life experience or the fact that people are too lazy to learn normal speech, I certainly don't speak any differently than I did in High School, but I was well brought up. I am unaware of any jargon I use except perhaps some I might have picked up on the news. If I am speaking about medical stuff I have experience with, I use the correct terminology, because that is what it takes to convey my meaning accurately.

I was always baffled in England that my work mates read The Sun, when there was The Guardian and The Independent or even The Times available. Apparently they thought that to do so was to put on airs, to aspire to something above their class, even though they were capable of reading at a higher level, I was just concerned with more factual, less biased, and better written news. Judging by the preferred news souces here, the same reverse snobbery may be at work. Predigested opinion from F@#News, or NewsMax, or TownHall.org. The best of the sources is the National Review, but you're still not going to hear something disturbing or of another opinion there.

But if it makes you happy...

Rob

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(NT) (NT) You certainly do put on airs here
May 8, 2006 9:15AM PDT
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(NT) (NT) Your opinion isn't truth.
May 8, 2006 7:33PM PDT
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(NT) (NT) And your's isn't reality
May 9, 2006 8:28AM PDT
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There were assignments
May 8, 2006 10:08AM PDT

while I was in the military where I wrote operating procedures and drafted Regulations. A major command editor advised me that although everyone in the USAF had a high school education, the policy was to write at the eight grade level and to tone it down to that level. Ever since then, I try to write as simple and in detail so it can be understood by almost anyone, however my grammar, spelling, and punctuation is not that good (no secretary). When I was heavily involved in the 'Help' forums, I received several good comments that my explanations were more clear than most of the techs, as techs assumed others knew as much basic as them.
Perhaps you need to write simple.

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if is walks like a duck quacks like a duck
May 8, 2006 10:21AM PDT

seems to me its bs

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You nailed it.
May 7, 2006 8:16PM PDT

not that it will do any good.

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Not taking sides but wondering why Ed & Evie
May 7, 2006 10:00PM PDT

...are the ones replying in such volume to a question obviously to those who are moderators? My advice Rob is ignore what anyone else says except for the ones who have the power to lock threads, that being the moderators. Unless the others are directing the moderators in their actions, the only replies that matter on such a question is from the moderators.

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Sorry...
May 7, 2006 10:10PM PDT

I thought I was allowed to post in any thread on any subject.

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Because Rob has a problem with me pointing out when ...
May 7, 2006 10:13PM PDT

... he reposts on the same topic as a locked thread. See New Thread of Locked Thread.

This isn't the first time, and the Mods have let it go far too many times.

Tip for Rob: It's not "new information" if its just another editorial take on an old story. If the original thread had not been locked, you would have added this "new information" to that thread (or should have). So if you can't add it to the appropriate thread, don't start a new one.

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Evie, threads are usually locked
May 7, 2006 11:29PM PDT

when meaningful discussion has given way to continual insults from both sides, or the thread is more about personalities than issues. Our take then is that "everyone has had their say," and the thread isn't worth the time and effort required to clean it up -- especially because at that point experience shows that once reopened, the insults would pick up again almost immediately. Similarly, an immediate restart of the same thread under another root will almost instantly return to the insults, with little rational discussion.

OTOH, a new thread, started with a somewhat new take (usually a fresh news story with new information) on the same subject weeks to months later will typically follow the same pattern -- some meaningful discussion on the merits, before the thread again devolves into the mindless knee-jerk insults that got the first one locked.

So just because one thread on global warming or socialism got locked doesn't mean that a new one is verboten when some new information on the topic hits the media. Incidentally, one of the major factors in how fast a thread "goes downhill" is the language in the initial post. A thread started by a root post with a calm title and logical discussion typically generates the same sort of response, while one whose basic message is "Members of the opposite party are all Communists/fascists" goes downhill very quickly!

-- Dave K, Speakeasy Moderator
click here to email semods4@yahoo.com

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Well, since you locked the new one ..
May 8, 2006 1:15AM PDT

... it's obvious this wasn't the case. AND, he has done this many times before.

Speaking of locking threads, what's your position of opening locked threads to get your last say in?

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(NT) (NT) Ah, the apple of discord thrown again, I rest my case.
May 8, 2006 8:43AM PDT
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Rob, if you object to.........
May 8, 2006 10:26AM PDT

being called Rot and being insulted then you should quit slinging mud!

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Rot
May 9, 2006 5:39AM PDT

If someone refered to you as "Glanda" would you feel compelled to change yourself so they'd use your name "Glenda" instead, or would the wrong be theirs instead?

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Back off James
May 9, 2006 8:15AM PDT

My post was a deliberate attempt to give Rob a dose of his own putrid medicine for referring to me as Eris.

I would never in a million years refer to any member like that here if it weren't to fire back. In his defense, Rob claims that oblique insults, that the lower intelligence (by his estimation) membership of SE wasn't even capable of deciphering, are appropriate.

Bringing up that play on Glenda's name shows just how very small you can be Sad