What a Sunday!

...of considering you Christian. I wonder how ol' Cally's been enjoying those flames all these years.

Yup! It's much better, thanks Mary Kay.

Yesterday was crazy.

*computer was acting up*
*my cactus is dying*
*the forum I am moderating is closing <i think, not so sure yet>*

But most of all, I've learned from a very close none Muslim friend's marriage is going down the drain after 15 years of marriage. Shocking to me is that, there were no signs of discourse that I've heard of, all of a sudden, the husband told his wife that he wished to live alone (I am not sure exactly if they are just separating or contemplating a divorce). It sure devastated the wife and shocked their kids. I don't know what to say... I felt *time* was wasted for both.

How would anyone deal with such situation?
What would you say to the couples as a close friend? Will you try to convince them to work it out or wahhhhh be happy for each of them or somethin?
What would you do if you were the wife?
How would you as a husband compensate for a situation given that it was your decision to end the marriage?

Shall I interfere or just stay away and not say anything to both? Wahhhh this is bugging me.

WOW!!! That is a whole lot to contend with. I.d give him his space and take everything else if I were the wife. But actually I'm saying that without knowing the people or the circumstances. If it were me I wouldn't interfere because after he sees that the grass isn't greener, he may want to come back and you don't want either of them looking back at you as the enemy. I hope it all works out for everyone

Didn't you know the two most feared words down South is "Hi, Honey!"?