In order to be able to pass along audio separately (I don't think all Blu Ray players can do this like a PS3 could) when connecting via HDMI from Blu Ray player to LCD monitor. In this case, you might be able to get away with using an HDMI switcher with separate digital audio output for your receiver. Output from the HDMI switcher would go to the HDMI-DVI connector. What I am not certain of is whether or not HDCP will be an issue with the switcher (monkey) in the middle. FWIW, monoprice sells such switching equipment.

You might inquire @ AVS forum for that part.