I live in New Mexico in a Southwestern style, adobe look home. As nearly all my neighbors, we have much porcelain tile flooring. Some rooms share your big challenge of being extremely "bright" where even normal conversation hurts the ears.
You must attack that obstacle. My great room has half carpeting to sort of define the living room in an open floor plan. Along with upholstered furniture, my acoustics are fine, but a couple of neighbors are stuck like you.
Can you help the situation with at least a nice thick area rug to help define the viewing area? My great is not particularly large, but I put two, long upholstered couches in the space and a large chair.
Tough acoustics challenges often have the situation where actual added acoutical treatment helps immensely. One of our regulars did such himself. Actually I advise some professional acoustics advice rather than leaving it to do it yourself.
Okay; now welcome to this forums typical opinions. Most of us are neither high on sound bars nor Bose systems. Here's some of the bit: sound bars are actually getting some nice reviews these days. I am a stick in the mud old minor audiophile, & as such I can't be attracted to a center located multi driver speaker unit that supposedly focuses some sound emitted supposedly to the back corners where it is then reflected back for added ambiance.
I credo is; real speakers for real surround sound.
Then about Bose: Bose is fantastically good at over marketing their version of convenience. Their speakers themselves are NOT quality construction nor state of the art. That said, one of my sons has the whole Bose enchilada & likes it just fine. Most here subscribe to the idea that better quality at lower price can be had with alternatives to Bose.
Can you bed a bit more explicit as to your realistic budget so we can be more focused in return. I have my regular set list of fine candidates for speaker systems & can fine tune that list as to if one has $1000 to spend or even nicer at $1500 or $2000 for speakers. In any event you will not be able to bear the sound without investing in some solution to the overly reflective acoustics.
I have a room which measures roughly 9m x 9m where the ceilings are more or less 7 metres and vaulted. We have a small plasma (32) and terrible 'echoey' sound quality (no additional speakers). I will probably buy a 50" panasonic plasma HDTV but what speaker set up? I would like to create surround sound - can I mix a sound bar, like the Polk audio surround bar, with say maybe the Bose 5.1 system with the speakers placed around the room? I am going to get a horrible echoey mess? We have ceramic floors too and no drapes for absorbtion......I have the money to spend, but just want to get it right - any body can offer me some good, knowledgeable advice? thanks.....Clare

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