After much reading and experimentation I have worked out the answer to this.
You log into a PC on your network (lets call that the client) as ?Fred?, for example. Then you look to see what shared directories are on another PC on the same network (lets call that the server). The directories you see depend on the permissions set for the account ?Guest? on the server. The server does not ask you who you are, it just assumes you are ?Guest?. It does this even if the account ?Guest? is disabled on the server!
This example assumes you are running Windows XP on the server and you do not have a domain, just a simple home network. The problem with this is you might want to give some people on your network access to a shared directory and others not, but everyone from client PC?s is treated as ?Guest?.
The answer is to enable ?Guest? on the server, then set a password, then disabled it (you could leave it enabled, but there are security problems with doing that). Then the next time to try to access a shared directory on the server, you will be asked for a username and password, you can use Guest or any other username set up on the server. It stops assuming you are Guest and starts asking.
One thing that caught me out when I was testing this: you need to reboot the client after making the changes on the server. Otherwise the two machines remain connected and you will still be ?Guest?.
I hope that helps others going down this route.
I have created an outbound VPN connection on a PC in my Network (Windows XP Home). I was surprised to learn that the person I am connecting to can surf the shared directories on my client PC from his server. I would have thought the traffic would be one way as I have set up as a client and he has set up as a server.
Anyhow, he surfs on my machine with the permissions of the login Guest (even though that login is disabled). I can easily lock him out by setting the permissions on the shares, but I also lock out all the other PC?s on my network from accessing them as well (because they will only connect as Guest too).
Is there a way of stopping the VPN server seeing my share directories?
Those of you that VPN into your office might like to think about what you have been leaving open to access!

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