Other than the one who started this thread (and I don't know for sure), I'm pretty sure wizkid and paintguru are men (not boys, mind you, MEN). Wizkid, if you are a woman, I'm sorry. I'm a woman. And as a woman, I applaud that men can find other men attractive and not lose their sense of hetero masculinity (for lack of better words). I find that it shows a sign of maturity and being comfortable with their own sexuality. Of course, there is a difference between saying "so and so is a good looking man" and unwanted sexual advances. I don't think the latter is taking place here. If the latter were to occur, the mature man could say, "I'm sorry...I'm not interested," or "I'm not gay." Either way, the mature man will take it in stride and perhaps feel a little bit flattered. I would hope that he can back away gracefully without having to resort to violence.
I am taking this way too seriously. Sorry, Tom...Dr. Tiki is floating my boat right now.