Hey do you know if your HDTV has a 120Hz or 60Hz refresh rate. I have been possibly looking at buying the VL320M at Costco.
Here are the settings I use for playing xbox360/PS3 in a dimly lit room.
Custom:
Backlight:45
Brightness:52
Contrast:54
Color:45
Tint:2
Sharpness:2
Advance:
Noise Reduction:off
Color Enhancement:off/normal(slightly more vivid)
Adv.Luma:off
Backlight Controls:off
Color temp:Custom
Red:132
Green:134
Blue:131
These what I found were the best after using the THX optimizer and a little tweaking of my own. If you anything different drop me a line.

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