Specifically, this post in which I describe the top methods to enabling third-party themes under Vista. I start with WindowBlinds, but move on to two free options. Give it a try and let us know how it goes.
John
How can I use visual style files on vista without using a paid program.
I am now using windowblinds 6 but it will expire, so yeah.

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