I highly doubt it's possible to disable that. It's been around in one form or another since about Windows95, so best get used to it, or find a third party file manager for all your deleting needs.
vista home premium
everytime I move or delete an icon/file/folder to recycle bin or into a folder I get the message "moving/deleting ... to ..."
does anyone know how to disable this nag
Thanks

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