DVD "ripping" is out there so the best way is up for debate every time someone asks. Google "How to rip my DVDs?" and that's well done. There no best way. Only you can answer what is best.
As to the iTunes, most is DRM locked and this forum policy does not allow discussions about DRM removal.
I have an old Pioneer 300 disk DVD changer which still works great bud doesn’t have HDMI out, back in the day component video was great with 60in screen but now I have a 65, and a 120’ projection that works with a Sony surround and it does passthrough the component to HDMI. My question is there a good way to rip about 290+ disks in very very good quality and surround for better use of space and a long-term solution to this problem.
Hopper3 with 4 tvs total- I know work with some media player
4 newer Apple TVs on those as well- I know PLEX has an app
And 1 65 Visio smart tv ?
Kidoz have a ps4 hooked up as well ?
I have played around with PLEX a little but looking for the best way to store and play back ie NAS and recommended solutions, I also have about 90 movies in iTunes also.

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