If you still have the old phone, you can get the music off it and back onto a computer using an app called iRip. There are Windows and Mac versions, it's not free.
To use the iPhone 6 you will need the latest version of iTunes, which, as you have already found out, does not run on XP.
Install the latest version of iTunes on your Windows 7 machine and then follow the instructions given for iRip.
That will move all the music off the old phone and back into iTunes.
From there you can sync the new iPhone and all will be well again
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I just upgraded to iPhone 6 and like it very much. AT&T transferred everything from my old phone to the new one from the Cloud. Only problem is, none of my music or movies transferred. My main computer is Win XP and it doesn't seem to be able accept the newest version of iTunes needed to use XP. I went to another computer we have that is Win 7, was able to get into itunes, but none of my music was there. It also stopped using my Ringtone which I had purchased. Is there any way to transfer the information directly from the old phone to new? I spoke to an Apple Tech and he seemed to think that the copyright laws are stronger now and that's why I couldn't get them. Seems kind of silly as most of what I have are very old opera recordings as well as some that I purchased. Is there anyway to drop them in the iClous on my old computer? Would love some advice.
peggy from lenox

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