Transgender, convicted felon, illegal but can STAY here

she'd want to be the father of her children, she'd not have had this problem other than by a rape.

got a Kenyan. There have been a lot of male/female couples that had the same outcome and also were up in arms and sued. Does this make them bad parents as well?

She admits that she was raised a bigot. Of course, there are a lot of them out there. So the child is taken away and where are they going to find a straight couple that is willing to take a mixed race child in that culture?

I think she's adorable BTW.

to help the little girl? Yes, she's adorable. Do you think their neighborhood is full of bigots and will negatively affect this child? After all, they don't seem bigoted enough to reject the same sex couple. Something in the reported argument makes no sense to me so I'm questioning their real motive. Frankly, if this child was put up for adoption because these women didn't want her, my guess is they'd have a long parade of potential adoptive parents clamoring to take her and love her. At this point, however, I'd be reluctant to put the child through that trauma. These women need to buck up, do their best for her, and try to come out of this as better themselves.

....of the sperm bank to find a proper home for the child, and to make good on their promise to the woman, so long as it's legal. When you don't get what was advertised and paid for, that's FRAUD. Why should a sperm bank not be subject to laws against fraud?

....getting what she paid for? Because she's a Lesbian? Even I feel she had at least the right to get what she paid for. If we are going to be in the "baby buying market" then one should get the "product" they ordered and not some other product.

Offer to take her back and replace her with a model that meets their expectations. Let the sperm bank assume all medical costs up until the child was born and found to be not cosmetically perfect. Failure to notify the sperm bank and seek resolution immediately upon discovery of the product defect absolves the business of any financial loss incurred once accepted and implemented.

Or, if we need a more biblical solution, consult the "wise king" who got in the middle of an ownership dispute. Perhaps a sword in the right places might extract the 1/2 of the child that the women don't want. Sickening when these things happen and innocents are involved.

So you NOW admit "they" are "born that way"?

Nobody said the child born to the lesbian was a lesbian.

If you went and paid a car dealer for a BMW and you were delivered a VW, was that "negligence"? They'd be obligated to take back the VW and provide the BMW instead. Why not hold these "sperm banks" to the same standards and require them to become legally responsible for all costs related to their mistake, which resulted in an alternate product or result than what had been ordered? Maybe if the sperm banks had to pay the actual full cost for their mistakes, we could see an end to them. So long as men exist capable of sexually providing sperm to produce babies, there is absolutely no need for "sperm banks" to exist, except in the most limited sense and ONLY be allowed to provide services between a husband and wife. Furthermore all sperm bank records must become public, if for no other reason, so siblings, even half siblings, don't end up marrying each other. It's in society's best interest to make this openess happen.

because you are wrong.

"My niece and her wife got a baby via a sperm bank also. They were happy and so was the whole family. And I think that even you would be a proud Grandpa if your daughter had done the same."

Why would I be happy the error of such an arrangement was compounded by adding a child into it, and that child not knowing it's own father? Why would I object to those who engage in one form of illegitimate birth and not to "sperm bank" conception of lesbians? Maybe that sperm came from Brazil? Ever see the movie "The Boys From Brazil", a Jewish person's nightmare?

No, I would not be proud my daughter had done the same. I would be ashamed, of her.

Obligation?

You'll stand by her and keep your opinion to yourself?

You'll stand by her and voice your opinion ?

You'll stand by her and voice your opinion regularly ?

So, whatever YOUR daughter chooses...is OK with you?

Does what you daughter does have to be ok with me?

If so.....Why?

If not?....See where I'm going?

UNLESS you are directly involved in the situation...your opinion means nothing.

Must be a large void there.

Right

Questions from me...no answers from you.

If an alien commits a felony, it seems like he or she did it and realized the consequences which is deportation. If she was worried about going back to Mexico, she thought of that before she drove drunk.