Sorry, but I deleted your post. It was much too much like an ad.
Let me remark it's quite understandable that you have issues with your sites if apparently you don't know enough of IT to choose the right forum for your problem (I don't think it's related to the Windows XP OS) and, moreover, you don't seem to understand what information any external helper like you can find here would need to help you with a server issue.
If I were you, I would hire a professional to manage your sites.
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