The router will share the connection equally, but most complain about response times. In more detail, if all 4 download, each do get 1/4 the bandwidth but as you may notice the response times plummet even with 2 downloaders.
I'm guessing your complaint is about response times and not bandwidth sharing.
Bob
We have an 8MBs Broadband connection setup through a NETGEAR DG834G wireless router. Four of us share the connection, and two of my flatmates (..we're students!) hog the bandwith. Is there anything I can to limit their bandwith consumption so us other 2 get decent download speeds!?
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