You're partly right. Along with the tongue-in-cheek there's my continued amazement at the arguments that used to erupt over facts that were facts even if the bible were myth (which, of course, I do not believe).
A very hypothetical illustration:
Poster A says, 'The phrase "go forth" doesn't belong in the bible!'
Poster B says, 'No, here it is, on page 17 of the KJV, page 18 of the RSV and NWT, etc.'
Poster A replies with a flame. (Or perhaps B says, 'Here it is, you blithering idiot ...!')
Now imagine (as I've often said) that I tell you, 'In Moby ****, the title character is the ship captain.' Am I crazy or what?? That Moby **** is definitely fiction doesn't allow us to make up "facts" about it. (If you do, don't expect a passing grade in Eng 205, "The American Novel")
So ... If it eases some minds to "be allowed" to consider the bible as myth, that doesn't hurt my feelings. (Some, of course, think of God as female, but they gonna burn!!
) Just don't try to tell me there's no "Paul" in the myth.
As to this Paul person, he [is said to have] said, "In this way husbands ought to be loving their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself, for no man ever hated his own flesh; but he feeds and cherishes it, as the Christ also does the congregation." And this to people from cultures which condoned or even encouraged wife-beating. Pointing this out to those who have been taught (by mainstream "Christians", not cultists) about Paul's alleged misogyny can make them testy. That's when the flames start. In that case, Lee Koo and I say, "But a slave of the Lord does not need to fight, but needs to be gentle toward all, qualified to teach, keeping himself restrained under evil, instructing with mildness those not favorably disposed;" (2 Koo 2:24,25)
Another thing. Steve referred earlier to approaching a non-believer with "Thus saith the LORD; believe or die!" Waste of time, he and I agree. Best way, I've found, is to show someone a statement that ought to surprise them. If they're constructively surprised they'll ask themselves, 'What else might there be of which I was ignorant or poorly informed? Perhaps I should look into it.' In the post under discussion, I was just showing Steve that a point he made was also in the bible. That's always nice to know, even if Steve is a myth.
Steve, you might be interested in this:
http://store.newadventcd.com/caencd.html