you have to use the optical cable. With ARC, it take both partners to tango.
I have a Samsung tv from 2008 that does not have ARC hdmi. Bought a new Sony receiver that does have ARC and am told that I need to connect an digital optical cable. Sony cannot tell me why I need this. Does anyone know?

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