I just read Kati and the girls have been found alive, I pray James is found alive soon also.
I am hopeful that James and family will be found. The not knowing is hard and knowing the worst would be much harder.
In 1997, one of my co-workers died in a car accident and it was awful. A very surreal time indeed. Our company brought in a crisis counselor to help us through it.
Here is a link to a handout:
I hope this story has a happy ending.