This is widely discussed on both Google and Google groups. But you may want to know about a program called MOVEONBOOT that can help you eject/move just about any file.
Why duplicate this discussion?
Bob
how do i stop and then delete a running .dll file? I know I don't need the specific file.
My second question is I have a file running on startup that I don't know what it does or if i need it. The file is loadqm.exe. What is it and what does it do?

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