Well then, just wait for a few Thunderbolt devices to hit the market, and grab one of those. In essence, Thunderbolt provides direct access to the PCI-E bus, so it puts USB 3.0 and even FireWire 800 to complete and total shame speed wise. It could use with a security model, and after that, a good security model, but as far as speed goes... It is the fastest external connection tech there is right now that you'll find in consumer oriented products.
And I haven't had a chance to look at the internals of a MBP with a SSD, but if it's anything like the new MBAir's, then they use a specially made SSD that doesn't really use a slow SATA connector. It looks like it uses a form of PCI-E link.
But I would also expect that the flash cells used in desktop and laptop models would be in a whole other class than the likes of the iPod/iPad/iPhone. On those devices, write performance isn't as big an issue. You also have to figure that if you're using an iPod, then you're likely trying to copy several small files. Without getting into Computer Programming 301, let's just say that there's a lot of overhead associated with copying a file, and to date there's no real method of doing burst transfers of files. The computer has to open the file for reading, then read it, copy it, then close it. Then move on to the next file and repeat the whole process. Even if the open and close bits only take a few milliseconds each, you can see how it will add up. So that may well be skewing your perception. If you copy a large file, the amount of overhead compared to the rest of the transfer, is pretty minimal.
Finally, if they DO use a SSD like the new MBAir's, which is about the size of a desktop DIMM, they could probably manage to squeeze that in AND still leave room for a standard 2.5" drive.