Keyloggers and monitoring software rarely search for other keyloggers monitoring software...that's certainly not a standard feature. However, there are two things to note:
1.) Some such software takes screenshots as well as recording characters typed, so his software may catch you accessing your software, and vice versa.
2.) Antispyware software such as Webroot's SpySweeper and Sunbelt's CounterSpy can detect most keyloggers and monitoring software and remove them manually, just like you'd kill off a virus. Thus, there are limitations to the stealth capabilities.
Hope this helps,
P.S. Good luck with the marriage!
I have installed the trial version of a program that is a stealth logger to monitor husbands online activities.
It has worked great!
My question is, if my husband wants to get back at me for catching his online porn addiction and monitor me, can the program he downloads/uses detect the program I have that is monitoring him?
Will he be able to be stealthy?
I couldnt find a forum to place this.