First, get rid of VirusScan in favor of something else. That is the biggest CPU hog I have seen in some time, and is probably half your problem. I like AVG Free myself, for a virus scanner, but decide for yourself.
Second, you want at least 128MB of RAM, if not 256MB with Win98. Sadly, 64MB just isn't enough if you're running some more modern apps. Use a site like Crucial to figure out what kind of memory you need, but my guess would be plain SDRAM.
I have windows98SE, 64mbRam, and have a Compaq Presario 7360. I have done all the "housecleaning" for my computer, including cleaning out my files; checking start-up programs; doing full virus, and spyware scans; which I did eliminate a DSS Agent today; and also did a scan disc, as well as disc defrag. My programs are still opening "slowly".
Even when I "right-click" my computer, it takes forever just for the menu to open. I checked my performance tab and am running at 91%.
Doesn't really matter what program I try to open, it just seems like it hesitates, then proceeds to open.
I use Firefox as my default browser, and Thunderbird as my email client. Have McAfee VirusScan 7.03 with Firewall 4.0; and have Spybot Search and Destroy, as well as SpyBlaster.
Any help is appreciated!!
Judy

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