Who cares? Seriously. Just like I tell everyone else trying to decide between two consoles: LOOK AT THE GAMES!
Which of the two has more games you like to play? That's your winner. Don't worry about graphics or any of this other nonsense that people get their panties all in a bunch over. Focus on the games. If the DS has 20 games you like and the PSP has 19, keep the DS. If it's the other way around, keep the PSP. Everything else will flow from that.
I'm torn. I have a Sony PSP 2000 and a Nintendo DSI and I have forced myself to choose between them but I can't. Please tell me which is better and why.

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