We are having the same issue with our display. I am using the Sony Handycam HDR-CX230, and I cannot see the screen displays on my external monitor. I've searched the user manual but have come up short. Any help with this particular model?
We have a unique problem. I am using a Sony Handycam as part of an end zone camera set up for football. The camera is telescoped 25 feet in the air. When I connect the camera to our external monitor on the ground I get a great picture but none of the on screen display. This is important because the operator has no way of knowing if he is recording or not. The remote works fine and we have no problems with the unit other than not seeing the typical on screen displays ie. record / pause, battery, etc. Anyone have any thoughts. Your help would be appreciated.

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