I have yet to see that feature in the flip. It is in the big RED machines at http://www.red.com/ but in the everyday machines I bet you have to move to really cheap old composite/ntsc/pal units or PROSUMER gear.
Maybe the cheapest exit would be two cameras. One for recording and another for the live shot but given only your question I can't guess if that's a solution.
Bob
This question applies to any of the Flips, HD or not...
Does anybody know if it is possible to record on a Flip, and view it on a TV to see what you're recording, at the same time?
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