in the existing account, that is purely for your iPhone.
Connect the iPhone and configure iTunes to only add that playlist to your phone.
Once done, any track that is not in that playlist but is on your phone, will be removed from the phone.
Away goes his music.
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I share an Itunes account w/ my teenager. His music keeps popping up on my Iphone. We have some differences in taste. how do I get his music off my phone. I can't figure it out in Itunes....Help ...Please !

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