You have to set up the laptop for filesharing that you want to copy from or copy to while logged on the other. If you work on laptop A, you setup filesharing on laptop B. Only if you also want to access files/folders on laptop A while logged on to laptop B, you have to set it up on laptop A also.
Once you get it done for one such situation, the other usually is easy, if they have the same OS.
Please realise that the old Homegroups from Windows 8 don't exist anymore in Windows 10. So if you used to use that, that knowledge is useless. It's more like it was in Windows XP and Windows 7, but with totally new Settings app.
So the first question: what OS do the laptops have?
Hi I use to know how to do this but have forgot put it down to getting old lol, so having been trying for a couple of days I decided that I needed to turn to the fonts of knowledge, both laptops report that they are rightly set up but obviously there not as they don't work, so if anyone can help me and start again from the start.
Thanks RonC

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