Carol,
....And especially if you use it on the internet, not just DSL, but all connections to the net have the potential for an exploit to occur.. Still, you are on your way to protecting the computer correctly. XP Pro is a fairly secure operating system..You have a firewall, an antivirus, and other items listed which will help protect you. But nothing's perfect and the objective is to stay vigilent and keep your software current.
I would find another primary browser such as Mozilla, Firefox, etc. because Internet Explorer still has quite a few "holes" which will allow websites to install malware on the machine. Keep IE as the secondary browser for accessing Windows Update, etc.
Make sure to install the free spyware removal tools below and update them regularly and run them. There are others as well:
Ad-Aware">http://www.lavasoftusa.com/support/download/]Ad-Aware
Because your post doesn't belong in the "Tips" thread (Not for "Questions" but for "Solutions" to commmon problems), I'm going to remove it from that location. I'll repost it directly below so folks can give suggested answers:
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Ok my friend, I need a tip. I posted something of this nature elsewhere on this site, but so far no help. I've been computing since 1995, starting with a home made 386. Now I have a beautiful PC, a P4 with all the bells and wistles, including XPpro. I recently had to have the hd reformatted after only 1 year because I was under protected and my silly male friend was opening spam at yahoo. I know that was not the only problem. Now I have a router, SP2, disabled that firewall and installed ZA free, lobbying for pro, NAV, lobbying for KAV, IE6, looking for a new browser. The old configuration was so infected..... I can't convince anyone that I'm not paranoid, that there is a full out war against MS (not that I blame them for disliking Gates, I however am innocent) Please, back me up, we, running dsl are still vulnerable aren't we?
Thanks ever so
Carol aka relentlesss
Hope this helps.
Grif

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