It should be in the standard toolbar:
http://www.freeemailtutorials.com/microsoftOutlook2003/outlook2003Toolbars/outlookStandardToolbar.cwd
Kees
Recently Reinstalled MS Outlook 2003 ? Oops!
I had to reformat my Dell Latitude D820 laptop (WIN XP Pro) due to virus problems.
When I reinstalled and opened MS Outlook 2003, I couldn?t find the click-button for sending and receiving messages in any of the toolbars. I normally e-mail via my Dell Vostro 420 desktop (Vista Business) so I?m used to that venue.
What happened?
Thanks.

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