Your camera may have come with a program called Nikon View. If not, you can download it.
If you have PhotoShop on your computer, Nikon View will load a "plug-in" in PhotoShop that is used to control NEF files.
If you don't have PhotoShop, Nikon has a program called Nikon Capture that will control NEF files.
If this program did not come with the camera, you can download it too. But at a fee of $99.
Here is Nikon's software page:
http://support.nikontech.com/cgi-bin/nikonusa.cfg/php/enduser/std_adp.php?p_faqid=61
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I just got a D200 and I need a good RAW converter. Does anyone have any recomendations for good software?

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