Larry,
The "XAUpdate" program is "Panicware's Pop Up Killer" automatic update program. Apparently, you have installed this program it's simply trying to update itself. Disable the autoupdates by following procedures at the link below:
I keep getting a notice that XAUpdate.exe is trying to access the Internet
And for Motive System, does the link below explain it correctly? It would sure help if we knew the exact file name that's trying to access the net.
AskMarvin! Forums -> Motive System?
Hope this helps.
Grif
I keep getting these two popups asking for access, one is XA update application, the other is Motive System. I keep clicking no because ZA don't recognize them and I don't have a clue as to what they are. Does anyone know? Should I give them access?
Thanks!
Larry

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