The son was using his phone or the neighbor's router so the parental controls had to be done on the PS4 and not the router. Link about:
"If children will be using your PS4 system, parents or guardians can restrict use as necessary. To restrict use of PS4 system features, select (Settings) > [Parental Controls/Family Management] > [PS4 System Restrictions]."
Read more at https://www.playstation.com/en-us/network/legal/ratings/
I just picked up an Asus Blue Cave router. I set it up with the same info the old one. my son's Ps4 is not showing up on the device list. we schedule his use and it is imperative that I get this worked out. anyone have any suggestions?