I think it depends on the game, and how the developer of said game set it up.
What has happened to being able to play multiplayer games, using 2 controllers with the person sitting next to you rather than on the internet? Is this feature going away, or is the way to play tiger woods with each of us having a controller, or uncharted 2 against each other too hard to figure out?

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