Let me state that your post is a little devoid of what the issue is, but ZONE ALARM can help pinpoint outgoing packets.
But before you try to track down who is pinging you, be sure you know about "spoofing." In fact, don't ask me about spoofing, just use http://www.google.com since it's widely discussed.
Bob
Greetings,
Is there a way, a utility, that can determine which progam on a Windows ME PC is initiating a "ping" ?
I am aware of utilities that will initiate and provide tracing function for "pings", but I'd like to do a "reverse ping trace". That is, a monitoring function that will identify which programs on a PC are initiating the "ping".
Best Regards, and a Peaceful Memorial Day

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