You should help Windows by telling the Add printer wizaard that you want to install a printer on lpt1. Then it will ask for the drivers. It might well be those are on your XP CD, but it won't harm to point it to the drivers you downloaded from HP.
That's the way to install a parallel printer. Doesn't go automatically.
Kees
I am attempting to hook up an HP Laserjet 5L to my desktop running XP. When I plug in the parallel cable (which came with useless software, ebay cheapy), windows installs usb printing capability, but does NOT recognize the 5L. I have tried downloading the drivers from HP, and using windows versions of both the 5L and 6L. I have also tried removing the usb printing support and reinstalling it. I am out of ideas. After reading through all of the threads on this forum and others, I am stuck.
Note: I have had newer printers hooked up to this machine that have printed via usb fine, but not with this cable.

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