Mike,
I have an ongoing movie club, and outside of that, I entertain a lot at my home. Ive had probably 30 different guests overall since gettin FP is my guess. EVERY one of them says it is superior to the theater.
The last guests were here a couple of days ago. One movie buff had just seen Iron Man that very same day. After deciding on a movie to throw on, Batman Begins was chosen. It has good PQ, but it honestly doesn't even break top ten in my collection in this regard. I asked him how it compared to his Iron Man experience (which he was gushing about). I was apprehensively prepared to wince, but he says my system was clearly superior. I said, "REALLY?. He nodded very quickly.
Black levels? Go JVC man. The blacks are sick. Ok, on paper they aren't as good as Kuro for sure, nor have the 3k+:1 ANSI. But it does have 15k:1 on/off native w/o iris.
I have two small complaints with my setup, and they definitely nothing to do black level, pop, or brightness.
1st is large scale pans. Remember though, im at 159", no tab-tensioned. There is some sort of blur. But large scale pans are not very common. Ok, they are more common in No Country for old Men, but in Ratatouille the only large scale pan is when Remy discovers he is in Paris. It lasts for a few seconds.
Because my screen is so enormous, there is a wave effect. The inconsistency of the flatness of my screen is an upright V thru the screen. This effect is even more rarely seen, and again just happens in large scale pans. If you have tab tensioning, or even better, a fixed mount, you will never suffer this.
I had to get the simple kind of roller mech, because I wanted it this big, and with high power gain of 2.8x. daLite HP has glass beads emulsified to be able to do. Sounds expensive? not really, i think 120" is about $300. Hp is stiffer, more resistant to waves.
TBH, my setup has the very best black levels I have ever seen. However, I never considered asking my local BB to turn off all the lights. 
Im giong to repeat the above. The black detail is nothing short of spectacular IMO. It is the best I have ever seen no matter what the display. I know that's not *possible*, and so it must simply because the setups are never ideal. Or calibrated. Or whatever. The image, IMO, is so crisp. Again, not as good as best plasmas, on paper, but still superior to the movie theater to every person I know.
Yea, tv is bad idea. Bulb costs. Ambient light. This is why I recommend people to get a cheap 37"-42" at $500-1000, and have a pull down screen. Total costs are the same as hi end Kuro anyways. ya know, people are always asking about getting great pic, afraid of burn-in, etc, but the ideal solution is available IMO.
To connect the PJ, just run a monoprice HDMi. Very affordable. You can build your own PJ mount, or put it on bookshelf, etc.
Envious? If you can't beat em.... JOIN EM!!!! 
-jostenmeat