hey there i found ur question on this site trying to find the answer myself but i found it on the outlook web site here http://office.microsoft.com/en-us/outlook/HP100804201033.aspx?pid=CH101032781033
it works for me now so i hope this helps u out.
I'm currently having this issue with an imap account. Whenever I go to delete mail, all outlook 2007 does is put a strikethrough through the email and that's it. Is there a way to send deleted mail to the server's trash folder or another folder I can specify?
Also, for hotmail accounts, I would not like to send deleted mail to the hotmail server's trash folder because it just ends up getting deleted in 6 days or so and I'd like to keep all of the mail for backup. The reason why I like to delete them is so my inbox doesn't become so cluttered.

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