Without flash....forget the kit lens.

Instead, get a 50mm f1.8 (no zoom) lens. (price $115)

You can use your feet for zooming.

A 50mm lens was the first lens I bought for my DSLR camera.
Great for low light and at a bargain price.
It is also a great portrait lens when used on the D40, D50, or D70.

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